Simplicity

Every other month at Divine Life, we have a class on Tuesday nights. They are a way to dig deeper into certain topics and allow for discussion afterwards. I really enjoy attending and definitely looked forward to the one for April which was on “Creation Care”. I thought it was neat that they had organized this to happen during Earth Month and Jill did a great job of preparing and teaching on our Christian responsibility to the world we live in. It wasn’t just a class on how to recycle or turning the lights off- it went a lot deeper. We learned how our choices here in America affect people in other countries and how to be more aware of what is really going on in front of our eyes here at home. It really got to me when I thought about the fact that our consumer-driven society actually jeopardizes the health, well-being and prosperity of people who don’t even live in this country. I have really become more aware that everything I do has a consequence- good or bad.

Looking back on this month, it is amazing to me to see how much my thinking has changed. I really think that this class, coupled with God working in my life, has opened my eyes to a lot of bad habits that I have. Don’t get me wrong, I love America and out of all the countries I have lived in, it’s my favorite. But I think a lot of the ways I see the world are a result of living in the American culture. I think my biggest “sin”, if you will, is wastefulness. And I think that it stems directly from living in a country where there is plenty of everything, and up until recently plenty of work if you wanted money, etc. And hey, if you don’t have the money to go shopping or redecorate your house (even though it is perfectly fine the way it is), there is always a credit card to fall back on. I don’t blame my country for my mistakes, but I do think that our way of thinking has contributed to my wastefulness.

This class has really shown me that I don’t “need” everything I think I do. As a Christian, my goal shouldn’t be to have the most stuff , dress my child in all name brand clothing or have the latest and greatest stroller system to show off at the playground. Having those things isn’t wrong, but sacrificing what is truly important to have them is. The whole idea behind “creation care” comes down to stewardship. Are we good stewards of what God has given us- financially AND when it comes to the world we live in? Think about it… how many times have you gone through the Sunday paper and seen an advertisement for a sale for something you already have 3 of, yet go out and buy more? “It was on sale! Aubrey will look soooo cute in it! I really need more clothes for work”… etc. The need to “have” is greater than the actual need.

My epiphany came a couple of weeks ago. It was a light bulb moment, and I was completely disgusted with myself when I realized how wasteful I am. I kept a mental note of my habits for a couple of days and found myself throwing paper in the trash (post-it notes are recyclable, too!), throwing milk out before it went bad and buying a new jug, buying clothes or shoes that I already had plenty of (I don’t really need 4 pairs of black pumps, now do I?), and, here I confess my most shameful sin, seeing something growing in the Tupperware in the fridge and instead of cleaning it out, throwing the whole thing in the trash. Talk about lazy. Talk about wasteful! Everything I noticed I was doing that was wasteful was usually traced back to laziness and the thinking that “Tupperware won’t break the bank, so I will just buy more next time I am at the store”.

Seeing my habits in this light made me feel several things: first, I felt shame. As well I should have! Then, I felt anger, mostly at myself for being too lazy to wash something out or take stock of the food that was already in my fridge/pantry before going to the store to buy stuff I already had (I mean really, how many boxes of organic spaghetti noodles does one need? I am certain that I don’t need 4 all at once). After the anger came determination to change, and after that decision I began with the lists. On the computer, so as not to waste any more paper!

  1.  turn off the lights. Sounds simple, but it doesn’t always get done at my house
  2.  line dry my clothing. This will save me money too because our dryer is about to poop out on us and we have to run it twice for the towels to dry. I picked up some lines and clothespins at Walmart for about $7, and Ryan installed them over the shower. Out of my 5 loads of laundry this weekend, I used the dryer for only one of them. THAT was a good feeling. 
  3. re-use Ziploc bags. Wash and sterilize them and quit throwing them in the trash if they don’t have holes in them! 
  4. grow my own food. Instead of going to the store and getting veggies that sit in my fridge and go bad because I forget they are there, I planted tomatoes, cucumbers, zucchini and green beans. I also planted cilantro, basil, mint and thyme. These are all foods and herbs that we eat often, and having to tend the garden and pick the food when they are ripe will keep me aware of what I have and what I need to eat before it goes bad. I planted a TON of green beans and plan to can them and have enough to get us through the winter without having to buy any.
  5. Simplify. I probably have enough makeup (with the exception of things that run out like mascara and foundation) to get me to age 35 if I would just use what I have and quit buying the newest thing to come out. Who needs 14 (I’m serious) different shades of brown eye shadow? Apparently, I did.

That last point is, if you will, the point of this post. I think I am a gatherer. If I have the money and see something I want, I buy it. We have lived without credit cards for about 2 years now, and next month will finally pay off the balance of the very last one. That will be such a good feeling! Living within our means has meant sacrifice, but in the long run it has put less stress on our family as well as fostering creativity in our activities.

A couple of weeks ago I was standing in my closet, buried by clothes I never wear and complaining that I didn’t have anything to wear. It was just ridiculous, really. So, this past weekend I had a garage sale. I went through the house and anything that had not been used/worn in the past year went into the garage. My only goal was to make enough money to get a pedicure (it is sandal season, after all!) and to get rid of all that crap that I never used. Let me tell you, it was a lot of work, but it felt SO GREAT to make enough money for my pedicure AND a Zoo Pass for the summer, as well as drop off about 4 garbage bags of perfectly good clothes, toys, books and household items that someone who really needed them would use.

My new quest is for simplicity. I have enough clothes and shoes to wear to work for quite some time. I might get a new item every once in awhile, but it’s not going to be part of my payday ritual anymore to go buy something just because I can. I have enough food growing in my backyard now that I will not have to buy salsa all summer, and if I want a salad I just need to add lettuce to my grocery list. I really believe that simplifying is going to benefit my family in more ways than one. Obviously, by reusing things like Tupperware and Ziploc bags, we will save money. But by reprioritizing what’s really important, it will push us to be creative about our activities, enjoy God’s creation more, and just appreciate what we have more than always yearning for what we don’t have.

I’m sure it won’t always be easy to say no to “stuff”, but I think I’m up for the challenge.

Published in:  on April 27, 2009 at 3:22 pm Comments (4)
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Earth Day Article

I wrote this for an upcoming publication at work, thought I would share. Thanks Jill for the resources!

The Christian’s responsibility in the “Resource Recession”

 “Recession” seems to be the new buzz word these days. Everyone is worried about their 401k’s not having enough money to carry them through retirement. People are losing jobs, cutting coupons, carpooling and doing whatever they can to conserve their resources in these hard economic times. It seemed like it came out of nowhere, but the more research that was done, the more we saw that this crisis had been brewing for a while.

 

We can learn a lot from the economic situation we are in right now and apply it to other areas of life- the most obvious one to me is the world we live in. Whether you believe that climate change is a result of man’s actions toward it or not, there is no denying the fact that we use the earth’s resources as if they will never run out. If we keep at this pace, the world we hand our grandchildren is going to be a big disappointment to them.

 

In the beginning, humans were given dominion over the earth- not domination. The Hebrew meaning of the word “dominion” means “higher on the root of a plant”. Dominion is not unrestricted use of the earth’s resources- it is taking care of that which holds us up. If you destroy the root, you kill the whole plant. Many Christians have gotten away with not caring about the planet because they believe that God will destroy it at the end of all things- but the fact remains that Christ will return, and you have to ask yourself “How am I going to hand this gift of His Creation back to God?”. Yes, He will restore the earth and it will be made new, but that doesn’t take away from our responsibility to care for it. If I applied that thinking to everything, then I would not pay my bills, keep my body healthy, vaccinate my child or come to work. While we are not of this world, we have to live in it, so why not take care of it?

 

It’s interesting to me that the first covenant God made was after the great flood. Genesis 9:8-17 tells us the details of this covenant, and it repeatedly says that God is establishing it with man and every living creature of all flesh. This shows that God has lovingly created this world, that he cared enough to save animals and plants along with man on the ark and that He loves His creation. If I created something- say, a clay pot- I would care about it. I would do what I could to protect it from getting dirty or breaking. How much more would a loving and just God care about the life that He created?

 

We have a Christian responsibility to conserve. Turn off the lights if you are not using them, recycle, don’t print tons of copies of things that you can have electronically, do all your errands at once to reduce your drive, don’t encourage the toxicity of our world by dumping trash where it doesn’t belong and releasing harsh chemicals into the air. Just as we care about our 401k’s and our bank accounts and will do whatever we can to ensure that they will be there in the future, we have a deeper responsibility to the environment. The earth provides a free lunch, but only if we control our appetite. We must live Christianly in all aspects of life, not just in church or at work or in relationships with other people. It must permeate everything we are and everything we do. God requires it of us- how can we not bow before him and obey?

Published in:  on April 9, 2009 at 3:18 pm Comments (3)
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Need an idea for Lent? Try “carbon fasting”

This week at Anglican’s Online, I found this post interesting and worth a shot. Lent begins tomorrow, and I cannot wait!

Talking about fasting is bad for the soul. Like giving away your money, it should be done quietly behind closed doors, certainly not in front of microphones and cameras. There are no rewards in heaven for turning the virtue of fasting into the vice of broadcasting about it. The point of fasting is to lay your life before God secretly and seriously. Fasting isn’t dieting, though both can involve food. Dieting is usually about how you look on the outside. Fasting is about the shape of your soul. It’s a form of praying which, if you were to put it into words, would sound like Psalm 139:

Try me, O God, and seek the ground of my heart.
Prove me and examine my thoughts.
Look well if there be any way of wickedness in me.

“The ground of my heart” is exactly what’s up for inspection as we let God scrutinise what we really want out of life. “Look well if there be any way of wickedness in me.” That might sound a little strong in a world where the words “right” and “wrong” have given way to “appropriate and “inappropriate.” But perhaps we can allow ourselves a little wickedness for Lent. Although I fear—and I’ll leave this to your imagination—that the scope of what we consider to be wicked is usually pretty narrow. Try the impact that our living has on other people’s dying. I think that probably counts for wickedness.

If the scientists are right—and only a minority dissent—we’re warming up the planet to a disastrous level. Whatever else is happening in the natural cycle, a larger-than-ever world population is putting into the atmosphere more carbon than there has ever been in the history of the planet. There’s an ever-thickening blanket wrapping itself around the earth.

That doesn’t on the face of it sound very wicked, but it feels it, if you’re one of the millions whose life has already been threatened by the floods and droughts of a changing climate. I’ve sat with village elders in Africa and in India and watched their sorrow-stained faces as they told me stories of their children drowned in the floods.

It could just be that in fasting this Lent a still small voice might call us to think again about how we should now live. Instead of giving up chocolate or alcohol, we could cut out the one thing that is suffocating the planet. A fast of carbon could bless the earth as well as our soul. It could save the poor, as well as God’s world.*

We share a planet and church with some who find the good Bishop of Liverpool’s thoughts only a well-meaning substitution for more ecclesiocentric—perhaps even more excitingly wrathful—kinds of Christian activity. Rather, we find his approach a meet and right churchly response to the pressing needs of God’s own world and people. Give the Carbon Fast a thought and a click.

Published in:  on February 24, 2009 at 12:26 pm Leave a Comment
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My eco-friendly iPhone

I know this is going to sound materialistic, but hear me out. My iPhone has changed my life. I am not a big phone person- I don’t call people just to chat, if i have a question I usually text or email. I don’ t know why. I am not too uncomfortable with awkward silences, but to me I guess I just think better when I am typing. And besides, AT&T isn’t my favorite of all wireless carriers- calls often get dropped. BUT all the other stuff my phone can do, well it was totally worth the price tag. How is it “eco-friendly?” you are asking. The answer is that I am sure I have saved at least one tree from being turned into the amount of sticky notes I have stopped having to use thanks to the “notes” application on the phone. I put my grocery list, to-do’s, checklists, etc on there. And if you know me, you know I am a list person so this in itself has made me feel less frazzled. Instead of digging for the 3 sticky notes I threw in my purse, I reach into the front pocket and pull out my phone.

I have gone on two trips since I got it, and I didn’t have to pack a lot of stuff to entertain myself. I can download books, crosswords, and games… not to mention the fact that it is also an iPod so I can listen to music. So why am I talking about my phone so much? The apps. I want to share a few of my favorite apps with you, but I also want to hear from you! I’m always looking for good FREE apps so if you have any you would like to share, please do!

  • -Shakespeare. I’m an English person so this is awesome- and FREE! Just go to the app store, type in “free Shakespeare” and you will be able to download ALL of Shakespeare’s works straight to your phone.
  • itreblid. If you like the “‘Dilbert” comic strip, you will love this app- downloads a strip daily. FREE!
  • Mint. If you need to organize your finances, this is the tool to use. Put in your banking info and it organizes your budget. You don’t have to enter any transactions- since it’s linked to your account, it does it for you and you can see the breakdown of how you spend your money. Free as well.
  • Livestrong. On a diet? This is a great tool. You put in any workout activities you did that day, what you ate, your weight, etc and it is all organized. It also shows you how many calories certain activities  can burn, like walking up stairs or lifting boxes. My favorite thing about this is that if you are at a fast food place and want to know what you can eat, you can type the food in and see what is allowed for your caloric intake. It is actually quite shocking, though. One day I typed in “Taco Bueno taco salad” thinking I was being all healthy and up pops 780 calories! GAH! I think I skipped lunch that day…
  • Facebook and Myspace. If you don’t know what these are, I don’t know how you managed to navigate to this page :) haha, just kidding. These apps are great, b/c you can download pics straight to your page from your phone, etc. And I am addicted to Facebook so it keeps me connected.
  • iZoo. I downloaded this for Aubrey when we were going to Chile. She looooves animals so I did a search and this popped up. Its got pics of the animals and if you touch the pic, it makes the noise. It is the only time she gets to touch my phone. Ever.
  • Cycles. I think if you do a search for “cycles” or “fertility friend” this will come up and it’s free. Ladies can keep track of cycles, ovulation and “activity”. I know it’s kinda weird, but its a handy tool, especially if you are trying (or trying NOT to, actually) to get pregnant.
  • Holy Bible. If you ever see me with my phone out at church, I promise that I am not on Facebook. I have my Bible downloaded onto my phone! There are several free Bible apps, I picked the one from LifeChurch.tv and it lets me pick the version I want, plus has a daily devotion and verse. Pretty neat.
  • Cowabunga. OMG this game is so fun and it’s free. You basically have to bounce a bunch of cows across a river and they moo and its hilarious.
  • Jewel Quest. The only app I have actually paid for. It was $1.99 and worth every penny. If you ever see me on my phone OUTSIDE of church, I am probably playing this addictive and infuriating puzzle game.
  • Shazam. Have you ever been driving down the road, listening to the radio and hear a song you like but the DJ doesn’t come on and say who sings it? With this app you can hold your phone near the radio, push the “tag” button and in about 20 seconds the name of the song and artist will pop up, along with the option to purchase it on itunes. Awesome.
  • SnapTell. This app lets you take a picture of products with your phone- books, foods, etc at the store and gives you reviews and possibly where else you could buy it for less.
  • Take me to my car. I only used this around Christmas when I had to park at Walmart or the mall (gag me). You can basically tag where your car is with your phone when you park so when you come out of the store, it will tell you where and how to get to your car.
  • Stitcher Radio. You can select many different radio stations and podcasts through this app, make them your favorites and get updated daily. I have one for People Magazine if I am feeling the need to catch up with Hollywood, another for the BBC radio since I can’t find a station in OKC that plays it all the time, a ton of “mommycasts” and NPR. Keeps the variety all organized for you.

I have a ton more but these are my favorites, and most are free. So, share away, b/c I need some more cool apps!

Published in:  on January 22, 2009 at 9:00 am Comments (3)
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Good thoughts…

The Archbishop of Canterbury invited Sir Jonathan Sacks Chief Rabbi of the United Hebrew Congregations of the Commonwealth, to address the Lambeth Conference on Monday 28th July 2008.  Sir Jonathan was accompanied by his wife, Lady Elaine Sacks and their daughter, Gila Sacks.

Sir Jonathan’s address was greeted by a standing ovation and his responses to questions posed by the audience were frequently greeted with prolonged applause.

Text of the Address

Friends — this is for me a profoundly moving moment.  You we have invited me, a Jew, to join your deliberations, and I thank you for that, and for all it implies.  There is a lot of history between our faiths, and for me to stand here, counting as I do the Archbishop of Canterbury and the Archbishop of York as beloved colleagues, is a signal of hope for our children and the world they will inherit.
Many centuries ago the Jewish sages asked, who is a hero of heroes?  They answered, not one who defeats his enemy but one who turns an enemy into a friend.  That is what has happened between Jews and Christians: strangers have become friends.  And on this, I think the first occasion a rabbi has addressed a plenary session of the Lambeth Conference, I want to thank God in the words of the ancient Jewish blessing, Shehecheyanu vekiyemanu vehigiyanu lazman hazeh. Thank You, God, for bringing us to this time.

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You have asked me to speak about covenant, and that is what I am going to do.  We will discover not only a transformative idea, one that changes us as we think of it; not only a way forward for faith in the 21st century.  We will also find ourselves better able to answer the question: what is the role of religion in society, even in a secular society like Britain.
And let’s begin our journey at the place we passed on our march last Thursday, in Westminster. It was such a lovely day that I imagine meeting up with my granddaughter on the way back and taking her to see some of the sights of London. We’d begin where we were, outside Parliament, and I imagine her asking what happens there, and I’d say, politics. And she’d ask, what’s politics about, and I’d say: it’s about the creation and distribution of power.
And then we’d go to the city, and see the Bank of England, and she’d ask what happens there and I’d say: economics. And she’d say: what’s economics about, and I’d say: it’s about the creation and distribution of wealth.
And then on our way back we’d pass St Paul’s Cathedral, and she’d ask, what happens there, and I’d say: worship. And she’d ask: what’s worship about? What does it create and distribute? And that’s a good question, because for the past 50 years, our lives have been dominated by the other two institutions: politics and economics, the state and the market, the logic of power and the logic of wealth. The state is us in our collective capacity.  The market is us as individuals.  And the debate has been: which is more effective? The left tends to favour the state.  The right tends to favour the market.  And there are endless shadings in between.
But what this leaves out of the equation is a third phenomenon of the utmost importance, and I want to explain why. The state is about power.  The market is about wealth.  And they are two ways of getting people to act in the way we want.  Either we force them to – the way of power.  Or we pay them to – the way of wealth.


But there is a third way, and to see this let’s perform a simple thought experiment. Imagine you have total power, and then you decide to share it with nine others.  How much do you have left?  1/10 of what you had when you began. Suppose you have a thousand pounds, and you decide to share it with nine others.  How much do you have left?  1/10 of what you had when you began.

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But now suppose that you decide to share, not power or wealth, but love, or friendship, or influence, or even knowledge, with nine others.  How much do I have left?  Do I have less?  No, I have more; perhaps even 10 times as much.
Why?  Because love, friendship and influence are things that only exist by virtue of sharing.  I call these covenantal goods — the goods that, the more I share, the more I have.
In the short term at least, wealth and power are zero-sum games.  If I win, you lose.  If you win, I lose.  Covenantal goods are non-zero-sum games, meaning, if I win, you also win.  And that has huge consequences.
Wealth and power, economic and politics, the market and the state, are arenas of competition, whereas covenantal goods are arenas of co-operation.
Where do we find covenantal goods like love, friendship, influence and trust?  They are born, not in the state, and not in the market, but in marriages, families, congregations, fellowships and communities — even in society, if we are clear in our minds that society is something different from the state.
One way of seeing what’s at stake is to understand the difference between two things that look and sound alike but actually are not, namely contracts and covenants.
In a contract, two or more individuals, each pursuing their own interest, come together to make an exchange for mutual benefit.  So there is the commercial contract that creates the market, and the social contract that creates the state.
A covenant is something different.  In a covenant, two or more individuals, each respecting the dignity and integrity of the other, come together in a bond of love and trust, to share their interests, sometimes even to share their lives, by pledging their faithfulness to one another, to do together what neither can achieve alone.
A contract is a transaction.  A covenant is a relationship.  Or to put it slightly differently: a contract is about interests.  A covenant is about identity.  It is about you and me coming together to form an ‘us’. That is why contracts benefit, but covenants transform.
So economics and politics, the market and the state, are about the logic of competition.  Covenant is about the logic of co-operation.

Now I want to ask, why is it that societies cannot exist without co-operation?  Why is it that state and market alone cannot sustain a society?
The answer to that is an absolutely fascinating story, and it begins with Charles Darwin.

Darwin hit a problem he could not solve.  I understand from Darwin that all life evolves by natural selection, which means, by the way of competition for scarce resources: food, shelter and the like.
If so, you would expect that all societies would value the most competitive, even the most ruthless individuals.  But Darwin noticed that it isn’t so.  In fact, in every society of which he knew, it was the most altruistic individuals who were the most valued and admired, not the most competitive. Or, if I can put it in the language of Richard Dawkins: a bundle of selfish genes get together and produce selfless people.  That was Darwin’s paradox, and it lay unsolved until the late 1970s.
It was then that three very different disciplines converged: sociobiology, a branch of mathematics called games theory, and high-speed computer simulation.  Together they produced something called the iterated prisoner’s dilemma.
To cut a long story short, what they discovered was that though natural selection works through the genes of individuals, individuals — certainly in the higher life-forms — survive only because they are members of groups. And groups survive only on the basis of reciprocity and trust, on what I have called covenant, or the logic of co-operation. One human versus one lion, the lion wins. Ten humans versus one lion, the humans are in with a chance.
It turns out that the very things that make Homo sapiens different – the use of language, the size of the brain, even the moral sense itself — have to do with the ability to form and sustain groups: the larger the brain, the larger the group.
Neo-Darwinians call this reciprocal altruism.  Sociologists call it trust. Economists call it social capital.  And it is one great intellectual discoveries of our time.  Individuals need groups. Groups need co-operation.  And co-operation needs covenant, bonds of reciprocity and trust.
Traditionally, that was the work of religion.  After all, the word ‘religion’ itself comes from a Latin root meaning ‘to bind’. And whether we take a conservative thinker like Edmund Burke, or a radical like Thomas Paine, or a social scientist like Emil Durkheim, or an outside observer like Alexis de Tocqueville, they all saw this, and explained it, each in their own way. And now it has been scientifically demonstrated.  If there is only competition and not co-operation, if there is only the state and the market and no covenantal relationships, society will not survive.
What then happens to a society when religion wanes and there is nothing covenantal to take its place?
Relationships break down.  Marriage grows weak.  Families become fragile.  Communities atrophy.  And the result is that people feel vulnerable and alone.  If they turn those feelings outward, the result is often anger turning to violence.  If they turn them inward, the result is depression, stress related syndromes, eating disorders, drug and alcohol abuse. Either way, there is spiritual poverty in the midst of material affluence.
It doesn’t happen all at once, but slowly, gradually and inexorably.  Societies without covenants and the institutions needed to inspire and sustain them, disintegrate. Initially, the result is a loss of graciousness in our shared and collective lives. Ultimately, it is a loss of freedom itself.

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That is where we are.  And now let’s go back to where it all began.
In the ancient Near East, covenants existed in the form of treaties between tribes or states.  They had little to do with religion.  To the contrary, in the ancient world, religion was about politics and economics, power and wealth.  The gods were the supreme powers.  They were also the controllers of wealth, in the form of rain, the earth’s fertility and its harvests. So, if you wanted power or wealth, you had to placate the gods.
The idea that there could be a covenant between God and humanity must have seemed absurd.  If you had told people there could be, between the Infinite and the finite, between the eternal and the ephemeral, a bond of love and trust, I think they would have said: go and lie down until the mood passes.


If you had added that God loves, not the wealthy and the powerful, but the poor and the powerless, they would have thought you were mad.  But that was the idea that transformed the world.
Covenant is a key word of Tenach, the Hebrew Bible, where it occurs more than 250 times.  No one put it more simply than the prophet Hosea, in words we say every weekday morning at the start of our prayers:

I will betroth you to me forever;
I will betroth you to me in righteousness and justice, love and compassion.
I will betroth you in faithfulness,
and you will know the LORD.

A covenant is a betrothal, a bond of love and trust.  And it was the prophet Jeremiah, who in the name of God so beautifully spelled out the result:

I remember the devotion of your youth,
the love of your betrothal,
how you were willing to follow me into the desert,
through an unknown, unsown land.

Covenant is what allows us to face the future without fear, because we know we are not alone. ‘Though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil for You are with me.’  Covenant is the redemption of solitude.

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There are three covenants set out in the Bible’s opening books of Genesis and Exodus.  The first, in Genesis 9, is the covenant with Noah and through him with all humanity.  The second, in Genesis 17, is the covenant with Abraham.  The third, in Exodus 19-24, is the covenant with the Israelites in the days of Moses.  None supersedes or replaces the others. And without going into details, I want to look at one significant distinction between two types of covenant.
For this insight we are indebted the individual I regard as the greatest Jewish thinker of the 20th century, a man whose name may not be familiar to you, Rabbi Joseph Soloveitchik.
            Perhaps the simplest way of approaching the idea is to ask: when did the Israelites become a nation?  The Mosaic books give us two apparently contradictory answers.  The first is: in Egypt.  We read in Deuteronomy 26: ‘our ancestors went down to Egypt and there they became a nation’.  The second answer is, only when the Israelites left Egypt and stood at the foot of Mount Sinai, where they became, in the words of Exodus 19, ‘a kingdom of priests and a holy nation’.  Now these two answers can’t both be true — or can they?
            Rabbi Soloveitchik’s answer is that both are true, but they involve two different kinds of covenant.  There is, he said, a covenant of fate and a covenant of faith, and they are very different things.
A group can be bound in the covenant of fate when they suffer together, when they face a common enemy.  They have shared tears, shared fears, shared responsibility.  They huddle together for comfort and mutual protection.  That is a covenant of fate.
A covenant of faith is quite different.  That is made by a people who share dreams, aspirations, ideals.  They don’t need a common enemy, because they have a common hope.  They come together to create something new.  They are defined not by what happens to them but by what they commit themselves to do.  That is a covenant of faith.

Now we understand how it was that the Israelites had two foundational moments, the first in Egypt and the second at Sinai.  In Egypt they became a nation bound by a covenant of fate — a fate of slavery and suffering.  At Sinai they became a nation bound by a covenant of faith, defined by the Torah and by God’s commands.  That distinction is vital to what I have to say today.

Why is it that no-one made this distinction before Rabbi Soloveitchik, in other words, before the second half of the 20th century? The answer lies in one word: Holocaust.

At the level of faith, Jews in the 19th and 20th centuries were deeply divided.  But during the Holocaust they shared the same fate, whether they were Orthodox or non-Orthodox, religious or secular, identifying or totally assimilated.  What Rabbi Soloveitchik was doing, within a deeply fragmented Jewish world, was to rescue a sense of solidarity with the victims. Hence his concept, always implicit within the tradition but never spelled out so explicitly before, of a covenant of fate even in the absence of a covenant of faith.

V

Now that we have made this distinction, we can state a proposition of the utmost importance. When we read Genesis and Exodus superficially, it seems as if the covenants of Noah, Abraham and Sinai are the same sort of thing.  But now we can see that they are not the same kind of thing at all.
The covenants of Abraham and Sinai are covenants of faith.  But the covenant of Noah says nothing about faith.  The world had been almost destroyed by a flood.  All mankind, all life, with the exception of Noah’s Ark, had shared the same fate.  Humanity after the Flood was like the Jewish people after the Holocaust.  The covenant of Noah is not a covenant of faith but a covenant of fate.
God says: Never again will I destroy the world.  But I cannot promise that you will never destroy the world — because I have given you free will.  All I can do is teach you how not to destroy the world.  How?
The covenant of Noah has three dimensions.  First: ‘He who sheds the blood of man, by man shall his blood be shed, for in the image of God, He created man.’  The first element is the sanctity of human life.
The second: Read Genesis 9 carefully and you will see that five times God insists that the covenant of Noah is not merely with humanity, but with all life on earth.  So the second element is the integrity of the created world.
The third lies in the symbol of the covenant, the rainbow, in which the white light of God is refracted into all the colours of the spectrum.  The rainbow symbolises what I have called the dignity of difference.  The miracle at the heart of monotheism is that unity up there creates diversity down here.  These three dimensions define the covenant of fate.

There is a famous prophecy in Isaiah 11, that one day the wolf will lie down with the lamb.  It hasn’t happened yet (though there is the apocryphal story of a zoo in which, in a single cage, a lion did lie down with a lamb.  How do you do that? a visitor asked.  The zookeeper replied: ‘Simple – you just need a new lamb every day’).

There was, however, one time when the wolf did lie down with the lamb.  When?  In Noah’s Ark.  Why?  Not because they were friends, but because otherwise they would drown.  That is the covenant of fate.


Note that the covenant of fate precedes the covenant of faith, because faith is particular, but fate is universal.  That, then, is Genesis 9: the global covenant of human solidarity.

VI

And with that, I come to the present.  We are living through one of the most fateful ages of change since Homo sapiens first set foot on earth.  Globalisation and the new information technologies are doing two things simultaneously.  First, they are fragmenting our world.  Narrowcasting is taking the place of broadcasting.  National cultures are growing weaker. We are splitting into ever smaller sects of the like-minded.

            But globalisation is also thrusting us together as never before.  The destruction of a rainforests there adds to global warming everywhere.  Political conflict in one place can create a terrorist incident in another, thousands of miles away. Poverty there moves consciences here.  At the very moment that covenants of faith are splitting apart, the covenant of fate is forcing us together — and we have not yet proved equal to it.

            All three elements of the global covenant are in danger.  The sanctity of human life is being desecrated by terror.  The integrity of creation is threatened by environmental catastrophe.  Respect for diversity is imperiled by what one writer has called the clash of civilisations.  And to repeat — the covenant of fate precedes the covenant of faith.  Before we can live any faith we have to live.  And we must honour our covenant with future generations that they will inherit a world in which it is possible to live.  That is the call of God in our time.

VII

Friends, I stand before you as a Jew, which means not just as an individual, but as a representative of my people.  And as I prepared this lecture, within my soul were the tears of my ancestors.  We may have forgotten this, but for a thousand years, between the First Crusade and the Holocaust, the word ‘Christian’ struck fear into Jewish hearts.  Think only of the words the Jewish encounter with Christianity added to the vocabulary of human pain: blood libel, book burnings, disputations, forced conversions, inquisition, auto da fe, expulsion, ghetto and pogrom.

I could not stand here today in total openness, and not mention that book of Jewish tears.

And I have asked myself, what would our ancestors want of us today?

And the answer to that lies in the scene that brings the book of Genesis to a climax and a closure.  You remember: after the death of Jacob, the brothers fear that Joseph will take revenge.  After all, they had sold him into slavery in Egypt.

Instead, Joseph forgives — but he does more than forgive.  Listen carefully to his words:

You intended to harm me,
but God intended it for good,
to do what is now being done,
to save many lives.

Joseph does more than forgive.  He says, out of bad has come good.  Because of what you did to me, I have been able to save many lives.  Which lives?  Not just those of his brothers, but the lives of the Egyptians, the lives of strangers.  I have been able to feed the hungry.  I have been able to honour the covenant of fate — and by honouring the covenant of fate between him and strangers, Joseph is able to mend the broken covenant of faith between him and his brothers.


In effect, Joseph says to his brothers: we cannot unwrite the past, but we can redeem that past – if we take our tears and use them to sensitise us to the tears of others.

And now we see a remarkable thing.  Although Genesis is about the covenant of faith between God and Abraham, it begins and ends with the covenant of fate: first in the days of Noah, and later in the time of Joseph.

Both involve water: in the case of Noah, there is too much, a flood; in the case of Joseph, too little, a drought.

Both involve saving human life.  But Noah saves only his family. Joseph saves an entire nation of strangers.
Both involve forgiveness. In the case of Noah, God forgives.  In the case of Joseph, it is a human being who forgives.

And both involve a relationship with the past.  In the case of Noah, the past is obliterated.  In the case of Joseph, the past is redeemed.

VIII

And today, between Jews and Christians, that past is being redeemed. In 1942, in the midst of humanity’s darkest night, a great Archbishop of Canterbury, William Temple, and a great Chief Rabbi, J. H. Hertz, came together in a momentous covenant of fate, called the Council of Christians and Jews. And since then, Jews and Christians have done more to mend their relationship than any other two religions on earth, so that today we meet as beloved friends.

And now we must extend that friendship more widely.  We must renew the global covenant of fate, the covenant that began with Noah and reached a climax in the work of Joseph, the work of saving many lives.
And that is what we began to do last Thursday when we walked side-by-side: Christians, Jews, Sikhs, Muslims, Hindus, Buddhists, Jains, Zoroastrians and Baha’i. Because though we do not share a faith, we surely share a fate.  Whatever our faith or lack of faith, hunger still hurts, disease still strikes, poverty still disfigures, and hate still kills.  Few put it better than that great Christian poet, John Donne: ‘Every man’s death diminishes me, for I am involved in mankind.’

Friends, if we look at Genesis 50, we will see that just before Joseph says his great words of reconciliation, the text says: ‘Joseph wept.’ Why did Joseph weep? He wept for all the needless pain the brothers had caused one another.  And shall we not weep when we see the immense challenges with which humanity is faced in the 21st century — poverty, hunger, disease, environmental catastrophe. And what is the face religion all too often shows to the world?  Conflict — between faiths, and sometimes within faiths.

And we, Jews and Christians, who have worked so hard and so effectively at reconciliation, must show the world another way.: honouring humanity as God’s image, protecting the environment as God’s work, respecting diversity as God’s will, and keeping the covenant as God’s word.
Too long we have dwelt in the valley of tears.

Let us walk together towards the mountain of the Lord,
Side-by-side,
Hand in hand,
bound by a covenant of fate that turns strangers into friends.
In an age of fear, let us be agents of hope. 
Together let us be a blessing to the world.



Rabbi Sir Jonathan Sacks has been Chief Rabbi of the United Hebrew congregations of the Commonwealth since September 1, 1991, the sixth incumbent since 1845.
Born in 1948 in London, he has been married to Elaine since 1970. They have three children, Joshua, Dina and Gila and three grandchildren.

Being “green” is going to save me some money!

I’m just going to copy and paste an email that Mégan sent me because its pretty self-explanatory. I like these tips because they don’t have harmful chemicals- something I worry about with my curious little cat of a daughter and they are also a fraction of the cost of the products I use now. I really like the Method products, which are “eco-friendly”, but unless I catch a sale at Target, it can be a little pricey. So I am actually looking forward to my stuff running out so I can start making my own cleaners. I hope you can use these as well- pass them on to anyone you can think of who likes saving money and cares about a chemical-free environment!

Baking Soda

·        Baking (obviously)

·        Add it to the rise cycle of your washer and it works like fabric softener

·        Use some with ½ cup of Clorox on whites – it will get rid of the Clorox smell

·        Mix baking soda and water in baby bottles and it gets rid of the sour milk smell ( I assume it also works for toddler cups)

·        Use it as dry pet shampoo

·        Add it to your shampoo once a week to get rid of product buildup

·        Mix 3 parts baking soda to 1 part water, and use as a facial scrub (it works, Mégan tried it!)

·        Put it on your carpet before you vacuum and it gets the odors out

·        Sprinkle in the bottoms of trash cans and diaper pails to neutralize odor

·        Use some on your toothbrush as toothpaste

·        Dissolve 1/8 teaspoon in a glass of water to combat heartburn

·        Mix (equal parts) with Borax to make dish detergent

·        Mix 3 parts baking soda to 1 part water to make a paste.  Use it to scrub your bathtub.  Unbelievable how much dirt comes up!

·        Dissolve some in a spray bottle of water and use to clean kitchen countertops

·        Use to scrub dirty pots and pans

·        Pour dry baking soda down a slow drain, then follow with vinegar.  It will foam and help unclog the drain.  Wait 10 minutes, then pour boiling water down the drain to rinse. Safe alternative to Drano – you might need to do it a couple times to get it clear.

 Borax

·        Good for washing delicates or baby clothes

·        Add to regular laundry detergent – it works like OxyClean

·        Use on fine china

·        Use in diaper pails

 Here is the recipe I use for the all-purpose cleaner.  I got it from Low Impact Living’s blog:

·        One tablespoon of borax

·        One tablespoon of castile soap (you can get this at Target in the organic beauty section)

·        One tablespoon of lemon juice (can substitute lemon juice concentrate)

·        One quart of warm water. 

·        Shake it up and use it as you would a normal cleaner.  Get a 32 oz spray bottle from the lawn and garden section.  It will keep for several weeks after you make it.

I used it to clean everything except glass.  It even works on wood.  I got the peppermint castile soap, so it makes the house smell nice too. 

By the way – castile soap works as laundry detergent, makeup brush cleaner, body wash, and as a facial pack (think hot towel draped over your face to open pores).  It’s a little expensive, but you barely have to use any to get stuff clean.  A big bottle should last you 2-3 months.  But the money you’ll save on buying other detergents and cleaners will far outweigh the initial cost.    

Happy cleaning!

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Let’s go green! Only, can I do it from indoors?

I have been bugging Ryan since mid-March about planting a garden this year. Last year it was severely neglected due to the little squirming baby we brought home in June, but I didn’t have time or energy to care. Now the squirmer is perfectly happy to sit in an exersaucer for a half hour and sleeps 11 hours straight, so it was time to get started on “yard of the month”.

Last Friday we went and bought all the plants and flowers and mulch that we would need. And with the price of food going up this summer, I got a couple of tomato, pepper and mint plants. I wanted to go all out and get enough to make a fresh salad everyday, but I have no clue what I am doing when it comes to gardening… so I started small. My next door neighbor is one of those guys that knows everything about everything and his entire back yard is practically a Whole Foods produce section, so I guess I could have asked him. But the squirmer, she is still only 11 months old. Maybe next year. I’m sure by then he will be selling ethanol to fuel our cars out of his garage.

Anyways, I was excited about the pretty flowers and plants until Ryan said, “Okay, first thing we have to do is rake up all this old mulch and pull the weeds out.” To steal a line from Dooce, Blink. Blink blink. Okayyyyy. Sure thing. I put on my cute new pink gardening gloves and got to work. Only, it really is work! Its hard and dirty and sweaty and itchy! Those are NOT a few of my favorite things. But after a couple of flowers had been planted and I could see it all coming together, I started to relax and enjoy the beautiful day and the sounds of the wind and the smell of the dirt. By the time our garden was done, I was mapping out the backyard’s transformation.

I think my newfound eco-friendliness has opened a lot of new doors for me. The other day I needed to go to Dollar General (a little store about 5 blocks from my house) and instead of hopping in the car, I strapped Aubrey into the stroller and walked. It provided some great time with Aubrey, exercise and a break from the ordinary. Finding little snippets of just being a mommy is rare, so its something I want to make an effort to do more often.

I have said this so many times, going green doesn’t have to be extreme. It doesn’t have to be expensive. In some cases, it can save you money. It is more of a change in lifestyle than going out and buying a hybrid car (even though I really, really want a Prius). Some easy suggestions to start changing your habits are:

  • Turn off the lights if you aren’t using them
  • Unplug an appliance when its not in use
  • If you are in traffic, turn off the car. It emits less carbon if you stop and start the car than idling.
  • Turn the thermostat up (or down in the winter) when you leave the house for the day
  • Make your own household cleaners
  • Take showers instead of baths
  • Use re-usable shopping bags
  • Recycle

These are just a few of my own suggestions, but you can click here and here and here for more! See? All that eco-knowledge, done right from the comfort of my office :)

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